The Princess trades a fish for a horse

Having been somewhat traumatized by my fly fishing experience, which probably caused some trauma to our guide as well, we decided to take a leisurely horse ride in the hills of western Maryland. I was soon reminded of the unique mathematical phenomenon that you must take into account if you are not used to riding: One hour spent on a horse translates into three days of not being able to sit down. And electing to take a boat tour after riding might mean you will not be able to walk completely straight for a few hours afterward. The Hero, not greatly afflicted by either of these maladies, was amused at my not being able to walk OR sit for a while.


My horse's name was Cupcake, probably because the name "Horse that Has Gone Over to the Dark Side" would have been too long. But it would have been more appropriate. Cupcake ignored the well-trodden path all the other horses were dutifully following, preferring instead to pick her way through the most overgrown and rocky sections of field alongside the path. At various times she would, without warning, break into a trot, which felt like a full gallop straight down the hillside.


Usually guides will tell you this sort of thing about a horse: "Ha, ha! Yep, Jasper there is quite a practical joker!" As you ponder what this might mean, you suddenly feel yourself leaving Jasper's backside and note that you are heading toward a clump of bushes. "Oh," you say to yourself as you go sailing through the air. "THAT kind of practical joke."


But our guide told us nothing about our horses other than their names. Cupcake took advantage of this ignorance, and of our position at the end of the short line of riders, to carry out her mischief. Knowing from previous experience that a rider must be firm with a horse, I tried to rein her in when she got too far off the beaten path. She retaliated by taking me as close to trees as she could, and probably poison ivy as well, and staying very close to the edges of cliffs. With that, we firmly established who was in charge: not me.


At one point we walked directly into a tree. The guide finally turned around to see what was going on, probably tipped off by my yelling, "I might need some assistance here!" Seeing me extracting tree limbs from my person, she scolded Cupcake, but without really meaning it. "See?" Cupcake whinnied. "You can't get ME in trouble. I have immunity."


I tried talking to Cupcake in an assertive yet friendly voice, figuring that if it supposedly worked for black bears, it should work for a horse. Of course you are not sitting on a black bear when you try out this voice. 


Near the end of our ride, where the trail split into a low road and a high road, every other horse kept to the low road. Cupcake veered upward, where the trail, I assumed, probably ended abruptly at the edge of a cliff.


"See, down there?" I said to Cupcake in my assertive yet friendly voice, pointing to where the other horses calmly trod. "That's where WE'RE supposed to be."


The horse looked directly at the other path and made an independent decision to keep right on going. If there WAS a cliff edge where we were headed, no doubt she wanted me to experience the view from it, like a valley strewn with the bones of her previous riders.


At that point I had one last piece of knowledge about what to do with a stubborn horse, and I put it into action immediately: I let Cupcake do whatever she wanted. Fortunately for me, that was to go back to the stable. Before we got off and limped away to our car, the Hero and I paused for someone to take a picture of us on our mounts ("Duke and the Hero," "Cupcake and Her Prey"). I have not yet looked at the photo, but I know Cupcake is grinning.

Shake, rattle, and roll

The Princess apologizes for an absent blog post today. As you may have heard, the area experienced an earthquake today, and she is still somewhat rattled even though this is her fourth earthquake. But she is coping the best she can, mostly by consuming large amounts of chocolate. We expect a return to full duties very soon.

The Princess and the fish

The Hero believes that we should be preparing for retirement, which, with the current economic climate, is about eight decades away for us personally. We are good savers, but he feels there is more we should be doing.


"Like what?" I said.


"Fly fishing," he said.


This stems from his feeling that, in addition to money, we will need hobbies during retirement, and that we should start developing interests now so we can be ready to jump into them full-time when the time comes. Since by current calculations we will be pushing age 127 when we can retire, it is uncertain what kind of interests we could develop now that would still be relevant by that point. Maybe napping.


In the interest of finding an activity we both enjoy, and could see ourselves possibly doing long term, we took a lesson in: fly fishing. 


I admit that I did not think of this as something in which I would find a great level of interest. But after a couple of hours spent standing in the drizzling rain, prying my line off the bushes and trees behind us, and being unable to account for the continual loss of bait on my line, I was SURE this was something I was not interested in.


Our guide for this excursion was D.J., a well-seasoned fisherman who presumed that we possessed a much greater knowledge of fishing than was actually the case. During our lesson, for instance, he kept throwing out advanced fishing terms, like pole, cast, reel in, watch where you cast, OUCH!, etc., and expecting us to immediately understand what he was talking about. 


Oddly, D.J. believed that my goal during this lesson was to catch fish. Actually my goals were more along the lines of a) not having any personal contact with fish and b) DEFINITELY not having any personal contact with bait.


Actually, my preferred method of fishing, though I did not share this with D.J., is to dump the entire bucket of bait into the water. This way the fish will have no reason to bite my hook, because if they did I would have do something, like thrust my pole into someone else's hands and gesture frantically: "Here. Fish. Get it off."


Eventually the fish and I reached an agreement. I would let them take the bait on my line -- which D.J. had placed there -- without jerking the pole, and they would avoid getting hooked. Everybody was happy for a while, until D.J., noting a great deal of activity on my line about which I was doing nothing, kept telling me to "Jerk! Jerk!" At least I THINK he was using it as a verb.


At one point when D.J. left to give some tips to the Hero, who was some distance away, disaster struck. After all my efforts to the contrary, I caught a fish.


I attempted to encourage the fish to get off the hook on its own, using time-honored, universal fish language ("Shoo."). This did nothing. Finally, since there was no help forthcoming from D.J., I made a fateful decision: I would have to touch the fish.


I laid down some ground rules for both of us first. The fish could not wiggle -- I was very firm on this point -- and I would try not to kill it.


I very slowly grasped the fish, hoping I was not squeezing any vital organs -- and trying not to think about what I might be squeezing -- and attempted to take the hook out of its mouth. The fish, interpreting this as a hostile maneuver, wiggled violently, whereupon I started shrieking. These steps were repeated several times, and soon degenerated into my blubbering to the fish about how very sorry I was to be treating it in this manner, and that whoever had invented the hook in the first place ought to have one put in HIS mouth and see how HE likes it, and above all to please please not die on me. 


Finally, concerned that it had been out of the water too long, I threw the fish back in, hook and all. Once it hit the water it immediately took off for parts unknown, or would have, had it and my line not gotten stuck firmly under a rock.


Efforts to reach the rock and lift it up were unfruitful. I yelled to D.J., and in elaborate gestures gave him to understand that my line was caught and that I needed him NOW.


"Ya got a fish on there!" he said when he picked up the rock, as if I was not aware of this already. He gave the fish a once-over and pronounced it "done in." 


"I killed a fish," I said later to the Hero.


"That's kind of the point of fishing," he said.


"But not with a rock!" I wailed. "Now when I fill out forms and I have to say if I ever committed a felony, I'll have to admit I'm a murderer."


The Hero, having had better luck than I at fishing, is looking forward to more of it. Me, I think I'll stick to napping.

Mosquitoes vs. OFF

Western Maryland boasts some beautiful scenery, including mountains ("There are mountains in Maryland?" my mother asked after our trip, surprised) and the largest man-made lake in the state. That is to say, the largest lake in the state, as all the lakes here are man-made (probably in China).


The views are spectacular, and the view from one mountain in particular -- the lake spread out below, dotted with homes and boats -- inspires in one a deep desire to yodel. Indeed, while we were geocaching* on the mountain, the Hero was so taken with the view that several times he was scarcely refrained from acting on this impulse, and required a great deal of prompting to return to the task at hand.** 


But as inspiring as the scenery was, I was under constant strain during the trip, especially in the evening. This is when the Giant Mosquitoes go on the prowl, looking for new blood. Looking for ME, a Certified Mosquito Attractor, an All-You-Can-Eat Mosquito Buffet.


As I indicated yesterday, the mosquitoes in this area are about the same size as the black bears who also roam the region, bur more fearsome. Wherever we went, I encased myself in OFF. If OFF is ever to linked to some awful affliction, like memory loss, I will be the first to know it.


Um, where was I? Oh yes, mosquitoes.


I constantly fretted about them on our trip. Even safe inside our bed and breakfast place, I mused about whether I should put mosquito netting around the bed.


"We're inside," the Hero pointed out. "They're outside."


"Oh, they'll find me," I said, peering out through the curtains into the night, where I could just make out a crudely constructed sign that said Come on out! We will won't bite.


Miraculously, the OFF seemed to work pretty well. Unfortunately this only made the mosquitoes mad, and they sometimes took their vengeance out on the Hero.


"The mosquitoes were terrible!" he complained after our fishing expedition.


"What mosquitoes?" I said.


And after horseback riding, "The flies wouldn't leave me alone!" he said.


"What flies?" I said.


I returned home with only ONE mosquito bite, probably from a rogue mosquito that snuck into the B&B with us, wearing a gas mask to protect itself from the OFF until I showered. 


Obviously, encasing myself in insect repellent works, so I will continue to do so. At least, until I start losing my -- uh, my mem -- um --


Excuse me, what was I saying?




*Normally, "a pursuit in which participants use GPS coordinates and their wilderness survival skills to locate a hidden cache of treasure." In OUR version, "a pursuit in which participants wander around hopelessly on the side of a mountain."


**Which was to figure out how the heck to get off the mountain.

Wildlife etiquette

When exploring the wilds of western Maryland, where we were recently, it is important to understand and respect the local wildlife. This consists chiefly of black bears and giant mosquitoes. Of the two, the mosquitoes are definitely the more fearsome. Even the black bears are afraid of them.


But you would do well to avoid the bears, too, and know what to do in case you do spot one. To help you, there are signs with helpful suggestions posted everywhere -- at the entrance to state parks, on the backs of doors in public restrooms, in the grocery store, on the ceiling above your bed in the motel room, etc.


If you are hiking, you are advised to let any potential bears know that you are in the vicinity. Theoretically, this will encourage them to stay away from you. Some ways to let bears know that you're around include clapping, talking loudly, and singing. (Bears are particularly frightened by Neil Diamond, so singing "Song Sung Blue" would be helpful.) Alternatively, slapping your arms and legs at regular intervals is effective, and may also help keep the giant mosquitoes at bay, although from personal experience we doubt it. 


As the Hero and I hiked in one of the many state parks in the area, we discussed songs that might be appropriate for the purpose of keeping bears away. The Hero suggested we belt out "If you're scared of bears and you know it, clap your hands," which, by combining singing AND clapping, seemed to us to potentially offer more protection than either action alone.


If, despite all your efforts to warn potential bears of your presence in the area, you STILL run into one, the park service people recommend several steps. One is NOT to start singing the "Hokey Pokey" and waving various limbs around in front of the bear, who would undoubtedly interpret such an action as "moderately hostile." (Singing "Moon River" would be "extremely hostile.")


First, you should positively establish that it IS a bear, because black bears are similar in size to the giant mosquitoes in the area, except they don't have wings. There are different methods for dealing with each type of wildlife. If what you see is definitely a black bear, remain calm. If it is a giant mosquito, there is no remaining calm. (Trust us!)


If you do encounter a bear, remain upright and talk to the bear in a calm, yet assertive voice. Yes. This is what the park service people say to do, although there is no record of any of THEM having tried it.


So, to illustrate, cowering and saying in a wimpy voice, "Please don't eat me, Mr. Bear!" is NOT the proper response. It is better to draw yourself up to your full height and say, in a self-assured manner, "Please don't eat me, Mr. Bear." This will cause the bear to respect you.


At least until he laughs and summons the giant mosquitoes to take care of you.

Read it and leap

We have returned from our stay at a popular vacation spot in western Maryland, where a good portion of our time was spent signing waiver forms in order to engage in potentially dangerous activities. These potentially dangerous activities included wading through the waiver forms ("Reading this form has been found to cause eyestrain, glaucoma, and, occasionally, old age"). Whatever we did -- boating, horseback riding, roller-coasting down the mountain -- the activities themselves did not take nearly as long as filling out the forms.


It was the kind of place where, if you chose to stay at a bed and breakfast establishment, you might have to agree, in writing, that you fully comprehended that by consuming the Banana Sour Cream Pancakes, triple order of Full-Fat Bacon, and Fourteen-Egg Omelet (including yolks) for breakfast, you could be shortening your lifespan by several years. 


Of course, your lifespan could be even shorter should you be foolish enough to engage in horseback riding. The waiver for this activity was particularly instructive, informing participants that horseback riding is the only sport whereby a puny but strong-willed being ("human") is bent on impressing its will upon a much larger, more powerful being ("horse") that possesses its own agenda ("deposit the human on the ground as soon as possible, preferably in a briar thicket"), which is in direct opposition to the puny human's agenda ("stay away from briar thickets"). The waiver therefore advised that "the safest course is to avoid getting on a horse, or going near one, or even getting within a few hundred miles of one."


There were some activities that we felt should have required waivers, though they did not. One of these was participating in activities solely because you felt that if a nine-year-old could do it, so could you ("We will not be responsible for any ensuing emotional trauma experienced by adults who are too weeny to engage in zip lining, and who KNOW they are too weeny to engage in zip lining, and yet who do so because they do not wish to lose face before a group of fearless, taunting, juvenile zip-liners").


Another activity that should have come with a warning was taking refuge in the hammock provided by our innkeepers...


Warning: Use of this apparatus may be habit-forming. All brain functions may be suspended while under its influence. May cause happiness, even giddiness, and a desire to retire early, like right now, and pursue more peaceful, fulfilling work, such as staying right here. 

Where is the Princess?

Earlier this week, the Princess was kidnapped and taken to a remote location in western Maryland, where she has been forced to hurtle down mountains,  battle dangerous wildlife, and engage in other outdoor activities generally foreign to both her and the Hero. When she is returned to her normal habitat, she will attempt to explain the details of her participation in these activities, provided that she is in one piece and still able to type.